Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Crazy Year!!

So I haven't blogged in an entire year. So? This year has been so busy and gone by so fast!

Brent spent the last school year teaching second grade. Those little kids kicked his bum. He was so tired every night! They were a little too young for him. This school year he is back in fifth grade and his afternoon class is probably one of the most challenging groups he's had yet. He has the opportunity over this next spring to take an adminitrational training with his district. We are hoping that will improve his chances of getting some interviews this next summer for vice principal jobs. Keep us in your prayers! - Brent loves his little projects and this year he built a nice sandbox for the girls to play in comfortably. They were certainly getting too big for the little on under their swing set. He's also going to be reorganizing our yard this spring. Texas gardening has proven to be completely different from Utah gardening and he's finally admitted we need a new approach. We are hoping to build some raised bed garden boxes this year. He is such a great Dad and is definitly the fun parent. Mom is all about rules and routine. He's taken them to the zoo more times than I can count and is so much better about being outside with them so they can draw with sidewalk chalk or ride their bikes.
 

Brynley has been growing like a weed and is almost as big as Mariska. She is very active and loves getting out and going places. Every morning she asks where we're going to go today. Her favorite days of the week are Tuesdays and Thursdays because she gets to go to her PreK Mother's Day Out Preschool from 8:30-2:00. This is a great program and she always has a fun time. She is absolutely ready to be in kindergarten next fall... I am also very ready for her to be in kindergarten this fall! We also try to make a playgroup every Wednesday and we always go to Story Time on Fridays at the local library. They do a great job as well, always complete with a craft and a snack.  She also just turned 5 and is crazy excited. I can't believe it's been 5 years! Time is going by so quickly, I'm really starting to pay more attention to the little things I know I'll miss when they are big. 


Mariska just turned 8 and is trying hard to make good choices. She is always asking me if things are "against the church" and asking questions about how Heavenly Father wants us to do things. She is excited to be baptized, although it's going to wait until January so that Grandma and Grandpa Eldridge can be there. She is very excited to be going to Activity Days at church every other Wednesday night. She is currently in 2nd grade and is blowing us away with her reading skills. I'll give her a chapter book that I think will take her a good while to read and she'll come out a short while later totally finished and looking for more. For her birthday we got her a bedside lamp so she can read each night before bed. This last year she lost teeth left and right. Nearly bankrupting the Tooth Fairy!


This last January I went back to college!!! I am so excited and so very proud of myself. After many sleepless nights and hours of consideration, I have decided to attend Texas Women's University in Dallas and go through their Bachelor's of Nursing program. If all goes as planned, I should graduate when Brynley is finishing the 2nd grade and Mariska is finishing 5th. This last year has brought on so many exciting challenges. I've been taking math, science and psychology courses and really enjoyed gaining knowledge. I'm also really surprising myself with straight As. My current course GPA is a 4.0. I have a few Cs from UVSC from 12 years ago, but I am retaking those courses and replacing them with As. So far I'd have to say that my favorite class has been Anatomy and Pysicology 1. I am fasinated by the make-up and functions of the human body and I'm very pleased to say that it all seems to come very naturally to me. The most fun things I was able to do this semester were see tissues under the microscope, disect a cow spinal cord and a sheep's brain. I volunteered to do all the touching and cutting because I need to toughen up in order to succeed in the nursing field. I am taking three classes at a time, since I still have so many responsibilities at home. This spring I am taking 3 more classes at the local community college and then I should be transfering to TWU in the summer semester.

    This last year I also worked full-time until August. This was completely exhuasting, especially with school and homemaking on top of it all. I worked as a Certified Nurse's Assistant at a nearby nursing home for the grave shift from 10pm to 6am. It was very interesting to experience the working mom thing. One thing I realized was that working moms still do all the daily stuff stay at home moms do, they just have less time to do it in! I also realized it is a huge sacrifice to miss out on time with your kids and can hurt from time to time. I realized that while not being a working mom is challenging in itself, working on top of it is harder. There are so many conflicting emotions involved. Feeling obligated to work, wanting to work for yourself, guilt over being so tired and busy, and even the positive of valuing the time you can spend doing nice things with your family that you took for granted before. I originally went back to work to have something on top of housewifery and help out with savings and bills... but when I first went back to work, I hadn't planned on being in school yet. Going back to school changed the scenario. After the first semester of doing both at the same time, and having BOTH girls say that Mom's favorite thing to do was "sleep on the couch" on their Mother's Day surveys, I realized something had to give. I can't do all three things at the same time, the home and girls suffer too much in that circumstance. So, I decided to stick it out through the summer, since Brent would be home with the girls. We're lucky I did, because my entire summer pay went to car repairs!! Heavenly Father seems super determined to keep us treading the financial waters, but that's another story for another day... So in August I went PRN, or "as needed" and I filled in on the weekends here and there. Although after beginning some more difficult classes, I decided even that wasn't worth it, because I'd have to prepare for my shift the day before (napping) and recover the next day (or 2 sometimes!) and the pay just wasn't worth the aggrivation. So, in an act of faith, I've now stopped working so I can focus on the girls, the home and my education and gpa. And I have been loving it! I'm really trying to enjoy my last year with Brynley home with me and really enjoy these holidays, last Christmas I was knocked out most of the time, working graves over Christmas.

We were blessed to be able to spend Thanksgiving with some new friends, Bryan and Michelle Countryman. They have 2 girls Mariska and Brynley's ages, and 2 more younger kids as well. They are from here and I really have enjoyed getting to know her. We were also joined by new friends Bryce and Stacey Cranmer, sitting across from us.
 In March Amber and her family came down for vacation! We had so much fun having them in our home. We miss them so much. I can't believe how much her kids have grown. 




  We were also able to go to Six Flags with the girls twice this year. Once because of the free tickets we get through the schools and a second time because of our good friends Shanya and James Matthews, who invited us to go on a day they could get in a free guest with their season passes.
 



We also took a trip to the Dallas Aquarium, which was fun for a day, but a total rip-off we won't be doing again... good thing we got some good pictures while we were there.
 





That's our update for now! Since I'm no longer working I'll try to fit in more regular updates.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

BIRTHDAYS!!

Mariska is officially 7!! She had a pretty good birthday. She had several friends over to play the day before and we had cake and presents as a family on her actual birthday.
 
Brent made Brynley this incredible butterfly cake for her 4th birthday party!!
 

 
 
 Silly friends! We had a great turn out for her party! I think all but 3 of the kids we invited came. We played "Hot Potato", "Doggy Doggy Where's Your Bone", "Freeze Dance" and "Simon Says".
 
 
 She loves her new "Hello Kitty Cat" sleeping bag and her froggy pillow pet.
 
It's been such a busy month so far!! I'm so excited for January when things can calm down!!
 
We also went to our neighborhood's annual Christmas meet and greet... We took pictures with Santa, had the girls' faces painted and took a hay ride. They had lots of fun!
 
 
 
 Brynley wouldn't get anything other than a butterfly... so we made her a "Christmas Butterfly"!

November

November was a good month as well. We had lots of fun with Mariska's teeth. She lost 3 more in as many weeks.
 
 Brynley is a little too excited to get her teeth knocked out...
 
 Nanny McPhee.
 Mariska's last tooth to go was really weird. It hung on by a really long sharp spike that shot up into her gums. She would fuss anytime we tried to wiggle it out, because, as we later found out, the spike was actually stabbing her gums. To get it out I pulled straight down real hard and it finally gave. But until then, we had lots of fun taking "hick pictures"...
 
 
 
 Sticking her tongue through her gap is pretty funny.
Brynley was also an indian for her Thanksgiving party at preschool.
 
 Brent made Thanksgiving happen at our house. I slept most of the day, since I had worked the night before. He did absolutely everything.
 The day after Thanksgiving is always our day for decorating for Christmas. The girls have the best time hanging all their ornaments and love asking about why they got certain ones.